I think women are hard to understand, even though I am a woman. But some guys have success with women. Having goals might keep my mind off women for a bit, and might help me feel happier if I work on them. They might make me seem more desirable or they might not. Thanks. Yeah good point focusing on other things because girls can be a bit of a mystery to figure out.
I might not be what someone is looking for in a girlfriend. Maybe I could change. Having a cool job and car, and saying/ doing cool things might help. But I don't know of any guarantee.