I thought that inviting someone over to stay at your place and offering secs was pretty nice. This is one of the warmer welcomes that I've seen here.
Also, to the op, you didn't miss anything by not attending these shows. I would advise that you also skip Nickleback, and go see Billy Joel. How stupid you are will likely be debated if you continue posting here, so you might as well get used to it now. It's the only way we know.
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