I work in an office full of women, who are mostly older than me. My girlfriend also works in this office. A co-worker recently pointed out that I had a large spot on the back of my pants, and so I tried to make it to the bathroom so I could wash it off. Before I could, my manager started to make fun of me, demanding to see the back of my pants. Everyone starts cracking jokes about me being on my period. The collections officer, also a female, comes out with maxi-pads, asking if I need them. I am growing more uncomfortable with anyone looking at the back of my pants. My boss then pages my girlfriend, and has her come in to try and get me to show off the stain. I refuse. My boss asks me if I need a nurse to look at it, so she pages a nurse. The nurse comes out, sees how badly this is embarassing me and freaking me out, and just walks away.

After about ten minutes of being literally cornered, my boss simply goes, "Well, if you hadn't been giving a reaction, we wouldn't have kept teasing you." Which is kind of ass-backwards, because my reaction was a direct result of my boss making fun of me. My girlfriend showed no support, and joined in the festivities.

Being the only guy here, I feel really harrassed, and kind of pissed off. I'm all for joking, but when someone starts shoving maxi-pads in my face, I feel a line has been crossed.