i am pretty healthy. i watch what i eat, and i do physically stressful things for long stretches every day. I have hobbies that keep my mind occupied the rest of the time, and i socialize in my downtime from those things. As stupid as it is to say something like this on the internet, but everyone puts me at about 30 lbs lighter than I actually am. I mean, it's pretty much entirely in how you carry yourself anyways and, as faesce says, if you aren't completely inept at talking to people, it's not a problem to get laid.