I've decided I don't want to get any bigger or stronger and pretty much just want to get cut for summer/beach/lake/any other large bodies of water beside which I can drink because girls don't give a shit about how much dead weight I can lift over my head since it hasn't been a factor in natural selection for the past 500 years and all they really care about is what muscle they can see and how much of a dick I am to them.

I understand that the way to tone is to do more reps, more sets, and less weight, as well as more cardio. How much should I balance between weight and reps, though? I mean if I'm benching 150 in 3 sets of 10, should I cut it down to 75 and do 6 sets of 10? or 3 sets of 20? Or somewhere in between?

Thanks meatheads.