Thanks for the replies. We talked it over a bit more and decided that we both didn't want to see other people but still agreed we need to get our own places and work on ourselves without worrying about each other so much.

We've basically lived together since not long after we started dating which was a problem(not the whole problem obviously, but a part of it). I'm keeping the apartment and she's going to live with her parents for a month or so until she saves enough to move out comfortably.

Thanks again guys, now I just need to work on drinking less and getting myself together. I also decided it was best not to mention the facebook situation since it's probably nothing like you said and would have caused more problems while solving nothing.