Girlfriend got drunk and made out with a guy.

**Anonymous** · 02-25-2012, 02:27 AM

And see I trusted her completely and this is what she did. I feel betrayed, like she used me not being there as an excuse. I didn't think I needed to protect her, she was a strong girl. I just need her to tell me she's done if she's done.

I want to get over it, I do. But I can see myself bringing it up in fights later on as you said. So I don't know if I can actually get over it or just use it to make my point stronger in future fights. 'Oh I got drunk with some friends, but remember when you made out with that guy?" Which, sadly, is no way to live. It just hurts.

I think I'll really need to sit down and talk to her though. See what this is going to be. Maybe I'm trying to cling to something that doesn't work, I just need her to tell me she's unhappy if she is. At least I would have some closure.

**Vengeful Scars** · 02-25-2012, 07:34 AM

Originally Posted by WellAdjusted

Wanting her to go to another shop is not a bad thing at all. It's completely understandable. I think though that if you won't be able to trust her out with friends and shit, then you won't really be able to forgive her. If you can't truly forgive her, then the relationship will not thrive. It's not fair to either one of you to carry on if you wont be able to get over it.

This is me speaking from experience. I was cheated on ... Stayed with him for 6 months after, but in the end I just couldn't get over it. I brought it up in fights and shit and that's not fair. You either get over it and move on, or just... End it.

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Originally Posted by Anonymous

And see I trusted her completely and this is what she did. I feel betrayed, like she used me not being there as an excuse. I didn't think I needed to protect her, she was a strong girl. I just need her to tell me she's done if she's done.

I want to get over it, I do. But I can see myself bringing it up in fights later on as you said. So I don't know if I can actually get over it or just use it to make my point stronger in future fights. 'Oh I got drunk with some friends, but remember when you made out with that guy?" Which, sadly, is no way to live. It just hurts.

I think I'll really need to sit down and talk to her though. See what this is going to be. Maybe I'm trying to cling to something that doesn't work, I just need her to tell me she's unhappy if she is. At least I would have some closure.

I just got out of a 7 year relationship, found out the love of my life was cheating on me for a few months, it takes time of pain, and crying, to get over it, but after you're actually over the entire ordeal, life is 100x smoother.