Quote Originally Posted by Anonymous View Post
She woke up this morning passed out in her bed after he other friend picked her up at 4 in the morning.

Here's where my mind is boggled. She said her tattoo was originally $180, but she got it cheap for $50 cuz the guy knew her friend(because he fucked the shit out of her -- she's only 18 btw and he's 38)

Now I don't think you get $130 off a tattoo for a lil tongue, at least not in the mouth(which by itself pisses me off beyond belief). She tried to pawn it off on her not remembering like that's supposed to make it better. So what he took a tip out of your vagina? You don't know, you don't remember -- you were already wasted, apparently date raped, and have your tongue down his throat.
i don't know about anyone else, but this passage gives me cause to worry...

do you honestly think she could have been drugged into a stupor and raped? because, if that's the case, there's more on the line than her honesty and fidelity to you. there may be things she's not telling you because she's afraid of certain possibilities -- afraid of what might have happened to her, and afraid of what you might do with the information (call the police? go beat the guy with a baseball bat? she probably wants neither.) if you think there's a genuine possibility that she was raped, you must, must, MUST realise that you have absolutely no idea what is going on in her mind and what she's going through.

i'm going to branch off from public opinion here and say that the issue of you forgiving her should be put on hold until the issue of her possible rape is sorted out...