I've been getting with my friend, who I guess would consider my best friend (even though we are really different as people, like she's super religious, I'm not, she doesn't drink/do drugs, I do, etc.) because I talk to her every night, for over a good six months now. She's in college, I'm in college, and we're really far away from each other (about 12 hours). She came back home for a couple days a week or two ago, so I came home to see her because I haven't see for about two months. It was a little weird at first, and I didn't really know how to act around her since we've both changed a little bit since summer ended; but by the end of the night, we hooked up.

Now, we've never done anything past making out, so it isn't serious as far as the sexual aspect of the relationship, but we go out to dinner, watch movies, do nothing together, cuddle, talk on the phone for over an hour which I hate doing, things that couples do; and even after all this time, she still reacts the same way and I'm waiting for the day when we'll just be friends. I'm not gonna lie, I don't want that to happen just yet because, yeah, I do like her more than just a friend, but we've never labeled ourselves as a couple, referred to each other as a boyfriend/girlfriend; so it is confusing. Also if I get with somebody else, am I obligated to tell? And I sometimes wonder if she's seeing other guys (she's a virgin), but I sound like her boyfriend right now.

I'm just looking for other opinions about my relationship since I'm (and have been ever since this started) don't know what to really make of it.