welcome back. i know you have complex feelings towards me sycld but contain your anger in PS threads for heaven's sake
the part that's his fantasy is her hating to see him with another girl. that's pure fantasy. yes, dream-he was saying he needs to stop pining over her, but without actually making that decision (in an awake, self-conscious state, not a dream state), nothing is going to happen.
for the record, i don't disagree that our dreams can tell us about our emotional states. what i/we said was that there is no external wisdom to be gained from dreams. it's tempting to think "she had feelings for me in my dream, so my unconscious mind is telling me that she has feelings for me", but that's complete rubbish. THAT is what we were saying.
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