Originally Posted by
Cryptic
It seems to me like you're probably not doing enough to make your interest clear. Girls like to be pursued. I mean, to a point - don't be stalkerish, obsessive and creepy - but they like to know they're liked and desired. If you just "see where things go" they'll go nowhere because most girls want a guy who takes the initiative, at least at first.
If a you and a girl like each other it'll be up to you at first to move things forward. Not totally fair, but that's how it is. Ask her out. Make a move - kiss her, put an arm around her, whatever she'll be cool with to let her know that you're into her. I mean don't try to get her in bed right away since it's a relationship you want, just show her how you feel about her. Compliment her. Call her. That sort of thing. Relationships only go anywhere if the people in the relationship actively work to progress things.
The reason your budding relationships are fizzling is because your communications, verbal and probably non-verbal too, say you've lost interest. Only you know if that's really the case - it sounds like it's not - but if that's true you have to make it clear you're interested until/if she tells you that she's not.
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