Obviously, I'm not a great source on dating advice.
But seriously, maybe look things like volunteer organizations or the like with gay/bi guys, social groups, or... yes, I'm really going to suggest this... internet dating.
To be honest, it unfortunately does matter to many people. They'll be scared you'll leave them for someone of the opposite gender.I'm bi. I wonder if that really matters to gay men, because I know some of the friends I already have that are gay or lesbian think bi people just can't make up their minds or are trying to be trendy.
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