Thread: can't come with girlfriend :(

Could it be that you feel like she's just taking more than she's giving? I don't have a sexual experience regarding this but I was making out with some girl one weekend and it was getting pretty heated but then as I was feeling her up she wasn't returning the favor, I couldn't even guide her hand to do that. She was into it, but just unwilling to do anything for me. I ended up just stopping, making up some excuse and leaving.

Just a thought. I'm not suggesting you just get up and leave, but maybe consider that she's taking more than she's giving. It can leave you feeling underbenefitted, and studies show that people are always happy in an equitable relationship.

Deleted post due to someone posing as a girl on the Internet for "female perspective."

To the person responsible - you do anything like this again and you're out of PS forever.


-sole

I'm the owner of the computer the above person posted from. It really WAS a girl who isn't registered here...she posted right in front of me, and I suggested she post as anon. That way it wouldn't be under my username which wouldn't make sense because I'm obviously a guy, and if she had registered and posted from my computer under her own account how much do you want to bet someone would have been bitching about me having "multiple accounts"?

Didn't think of that did you? Geez.

Anyway basically what she had to say was she dated a guy who got himself so hung up on porn that he couldn't get it up or perform decently with a real woman anymore, and when you talked about being able to get hard again with porn she kind of thought you sounded like that and figured maybe if you just laid off the porn tried to get more turned on with your girlfirend that might help you out.

I thought it was a valuable suggestion which is why I let her use my computer in the first place.