A lot of people have had this problem, I'm one of them too. First of all I'm kind of introverted (I know, hard to believe but IRL I am ) so I don't usually take the initiative to hang out with people because a lot of times, parties and stuff like that are really draining for me. I'm much better in small groups. So even if asked, I don't usually go to parties. And because I tend to hang back a bit socially, people don't generally approache me.

So yeah, I had to take the initiative and start asking people to do things that *I* wanted to do. Go to a movie or rent one with a few people, play video games, have a game night, go running, things like that. Because honestly when most people think "hang out" they think go to a party or drink. They might want to do other things, but don't think of them unless someone else brings them up.

It's just some people's lot to be the one that makes the effort first, I guess.