So I have been wanting to come out to my father for a while and the rest of my family. I told my Mom and she wasn't surprised at all, said that she had known for a while. Well I am just really nervous because my Dad is a homophobe, and me being obviously gay that is going to be bad. I want to tell him, but at the same time I don't want it to lead to complete exile. I plan to get my car and my car insurance in my name LONG before I tell him just in case that he isn't accepting at all, so he can't pull my car from underneath me.

Any suggestions on how to break the news?