Thread: This gurl.

Originally Posted by Kozzle

Much of the replies in here are retarded (Mostly Cryptic and Bifford's)


Anyways, I have been through almost the same thing. My current girlfriend went through the same shit (except I didn't "ask" her out, it just happened, but she warned me that she has some trust issues).

YES, a girl with trust issues WILL GIVE YOU A HARD TIME AT FIRST. It's up to YOU to determine if she is worth that. Eventually she will learn to trust you, time heals all wounds. My girlfriend went from not trusting me at all to trusting me a great deal over the past year, she still gets a little paranoid about other girl's sometimes but it's understandable...things improve continuously.

What you have to do is decide for yourself if you want to undertake this. The only thing is that if you DO make something out of it, the burden of her trust issues lie on you. That means if you fuck her over, you could potentially destroy her trust for any guy completely. You have to be willing to undertake this, but it CAN be worth it if you really feel for her.

My best advice is to think it over and don't rush things. Just hang out a lot, date, and then make a judgment after you really get to know her, don't jump the gun on people who have trust issues because it can become very stressful at times, you really have to be willing to work on the relationship. It basically comes down to this: If you want an easy-mode relationship (which probably don't exist anyways) then don't do it, if you are willing to work for someone you care about then go for it. Your best bet is to not talk to her about a relationship, just be there and spend time with her and if you play your cards right she will fall right into your hands.

Are you saying I hang out with her as friends and maybe she will eventually start to like me? That idea sounds kinda of good but what if she never starts to like me and I just end up being stuck in the friend-zone?