Ok so you love sex. Who doesn't? If there were a drug that could mimic an orgasm, I'm sure most people would be addicts.

What bothers me is that you seem to think you can't love sex with a girl you care about. You're not going to die if you turn down and opportunity to have sex. You're not going to die if you develop feelings for someone instead of just having random hookups. Everyone decides what's right for them at different points in their lives - but why do you see having a relationship as synonymous with something "wrong" with you? Why do you see turning down sex as having something wrong with you?

By the way, being known as a womanizer, boy toy etc is NOT a good thing. Sure you might not mind it, but some day you're going to meet a girl you really want to give it a try with (even if it's not this one) and she'll turn you down because you have such a reputation of being a male slut. We might not see eye to eye on this one and I'm OK with that, but I really don't see the up side of going home with 30 girls in a 3 month period. Nobody of quality is going to respect you, and never mind that you open yourself up to 101 diseases and social bullshit. I'm surprised you haven't ended up with a stalker by now - what can you know about somebody in 1 night?

I'm not trying to come off as preachy just because I do things a different way. I just don't get your mindset that it can be sex OR a relationship, or to have a relationship you have to give up sex.