I want to change my name, simply because I don't like the name I was given/born with. It doesn't suit me at all, and it's impossible to pronounce. I'm tired of clarifying and I'm tired of having an "identity" that I don't feel right in.

Just wondering how I can get started. I've seen tons of online "kits" but I don't trust any of them. I don't even really know who to see you start the process.

Also, how do I go about "transitioning". My new name will be drastically different than my current name. Do I tell people in advance? Just do it and stop answering to my old name?

Has anyone here done this or ever known anyone that has?

Thanks in advance.