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    Okay well let me start off by saying I'm 15. Well I'm still a virgin and me and my girl were in my bed and we were making out and touching all over each other and shit and then we got into it and yeah. I couldn't get my shit hard and I tried to stick it in but I wasn't hard. So she started blowing me and my shit couldn't get hard. Any suggestions?

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    You gotta relax man. Either you were super nervous or you were thinking about it too hard.

    EDIT: No pun intended on that one.

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    i know man but it just aint that easy.

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    Hey you gotta hit the "anonymous" box for every post if you wish to remain anonymous.

    Look I know its not advice, but I can almost guarantee thats the problem. Dont rush things, let whatevers gonna happen... happen naturally. It was your first time trying to do the deed, and trust me you are no where near the only boy that has happened to. Just gotta go with the flow, make sure the lights are on so you can be visually stimulated as well.

    Good luck.

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    Yeah. I know I edited it. And I know man but it just aint that easy. :/

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    Were you drunk or high?

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    If you weren't drunk or high, it IS that easy, or at least it's going to have to be if you're ever going to have sex. Over time you'll relax. I couldn't get hard the first 3 or 4 times my ex and I tried to have sex and yeah, it was frustrating and disappointing but we also knew it was pretty normal too and if we just let things take their course and not stress too much about it, it would happen and whatta ya know, it eventually did. We just had to get totally comfortable with each other and the idea of having sex and it took care of itself. The same will happen for you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cryptic View Post
    If you weren't drunk or high, it IS that easy, or at least it's going to have to be if you're ever going to have sex. Over time you'll relax. I couldn't get hard the first 3 or 4 times my ex and I tried to have sex and yeah, it was frustrating and disappointing but we also knew it was pretty normal too and if we just let things take their course and not stress too much about it, it would happen and whatta ya know, it eventually did. We just had to get totally comfortable with each other and the idea of having sex and it took care of itself. The same will happen for you.
    Yeah. Me and her were totally sober. The thing is she thinks I had sex with 3 girls. I'm really a virgin. She's 18 and I'm 15. She thought it was her looks like she wasn't turning me on and we talked about it after and now we're cool and she really likes me and I really like her and she said we'll try it again. But if I fuck it up again, I know it's over. :/

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    Tell her you're a virgin and she might understand.

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    I made a thread about this earlier, titles Can't stay hard, you should check it out because I got some good answers there

    And my conclusion was it's just the performance anxiety and excitement, so it should start working with time

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    Yeah. I saw that post. And I already told her I wasn't a virgin and that I had sex with 3 girls and if I tell her that I'm a virgin she'll probably never talk to me again. I'm going to try it again tonight. I don't know but if I fuck up again who knows what will happen. :/

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    I think she'd rather have you tell her the truth. If you come clean and she leaves, then she wasn't worth it. You need to tell her the truth.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Pepsi View Post
    I think she'd rather have you tell her the truth. If you come clean and she leaves, then she wasn't worth it. You need to tell her the truth.
    Yeah... maybe.

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