OP here. Well, I may still consult the police in her area but I have absolutely no intention of talking to this girl ever again. I won't go into too much detail, but we aren't talking anymore and I honestly do not care. She doesn't want any real help, and I'm tired of all the bullshit. So thanks for all the help, sorry it came to naught. I got sick of being a friend only on her terms, when she was not once there for me. And to Djwolflord, you may know her, you may not, I don't know. It would have been different if she actually was unhappy with the way her life is going, but if she doesn't care enough to change it then I certainly don't. I have better things to do than be an emotional welcome mat.