Thread: How to get over her?

Ugh. Jesus Christ. I've followed this thread for a little bit and never put my two cents in. But I think we need to look back at some of your posts.

Originally Posted by Anonymous

There have been some amazing and fantastic times together, but the majority have been painful, and heart breaking.

Oh so the bad outweigh the good? I've never heard of this phenomenon.

Originally Posted by Anonymous

Has lied, hooked up with others, flirting, everything bad you can imagine.

Oh. She's a slut. K. I don't consider flirting cheating, but she's flat out cheated on you. Dealbreaker. Next.

Originally Posted by Anonymous

I've given her more than a 100 chances.

No no no no no no no no no no no no no no no.

Originally Posted by Anonymous

We can't go for more than 3 days without arguing.

How pleasant.

Originally Posted by Anonymous

We don't trust one another.

And so why keep dragging it out?

Originally Posted by Anonymous

She also knows just what to say to make me feel like a horrible person for not talking to her.

Ah hah. You've fallen into the classic girl trap: You're wrapped around her finger. She's manipulated you to such a point that you've become whipped. I'm sorry. It's true. I had to say it. YOU'RE the guy. Do you know how unattractive whipped guys are to girls? The girls that want a whipped guy are mean, overbearing bitches. No one likes them either.

Originally Posted by Anonymous

I've had multiple in the past, but she is the first that I've ever fallen in love with.

How old are you? She's not the be all end all. Seriously. This is a great big world. There's plenty of people in it.

Originally Posted by Anonymous

I actually saw through all of that and thought she was different deep down, just needed someone who loves, and cares about her. Who would help her change.

Wow. Okay. Listen, you cannot change a person. They can only change themselves. It is so much better to be in a relationship where both parties are happy, and then they come together as an extra added bonus in each other's lives. When one party is sad, the other party's job becomes "Well I'm gonna fix em." You can't. Why? Because you're not her. One day she might wake up and be like, "Wow, I was a bitch and a half!" She might not. You cant force her into anything she is not mentally ready to do.

Originally Posted by Anonymous

Honestly, she is crazy. She's extremely jealous, obsessive, cold hearted, etc. She HAS threatened to kill herself over me multiple times.

Good god, man, and you wanna be with that? If she's threatening suicide, she's completely mentally unstable. Especially to threaten over a relationship, that's CUCKOOFUCKINGCRAZY. She needs real professional help, not help from a boy she knows is wrapped the fuck around her finger.


And finally...

Originally Posted by Anonymous

We've tried just being "friends with benefits" and it didn't work out.

Of course it didn't work out. You can't be friends. You're no longer friends. There is too much history for you guys to fluff off the sex as "just for fun." No way, no how. Someone ALWAYS gets attached again, or the sex means more to one person than it does to the other. I've tried being friends with benefits with some of my exes and efforts were all in vain.

You need to find your cojones, guy. Tell this bitch to fuck off. For the past two and a half years, you've been so concerned about her, you forgot about the most important person: You. Do you seriously want to be stuck in an abusive relationship? I haven't seen any personal ads saying: "Wanted: Abusive lady for nice caring gentleman."

What do you want? What kinda girl do you think you deserve? She's out there. It's not this girl. Time to cut the proverbial cord.