Thread: how to tell her

hello! it's my first time posting here. i have quite a lot to tell, so here goes.

i have a friend, actually a classmate, whom i liked for almost a year now. she's so nice to me. she gave me a gift on my birthday (we were not yet close back then). but i took the wrong signal. i thought she liked me before i did. but still, i acted as if nothing happened. so we started talking and eventually got close to each other as friends. but i've heard from our close friends that there's a guy (who's her childhood friend) who's been courting her, but she does not want to be in a relationship yet. so i took it as an opportunity to know her and maybe "test the waters"

just recently, i secretly gave her flowers on valentines day. i did it secretly because i still want to develop my friendship first before telling her. i am not in a rush, but i want to be sure that she won't go to someone else. i want her to feel how important she is to me, even if it's not the right time for us to be in a relationship.

sincerely,
JonV


edit: and oh, can the mods please edit the title from 'how to tell her' to 'how to let her feel'? thanks