Thread: how to tell her

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Once Again

Point Out

There is no friends zone.

There is, "She is not interested in you romantically."

But if you're a friend, and she thinks you're datable, she will date you.

The friend zone is such bullshit. Not every girl wants to date every guy. And not every guy stands a chance before they befriend a girl. It's just some flimsy excuse for guys to justify any specific female friend they find attractive denying them a relationship.

To elaborate:

If a girl tells you she's just interested in you as a friend, it means she never had any intention of dating you - or, if she did, she did not like what she saw in you when you acted as a friend to her. I mean, it's not like as soon as a girl clicks with you as a friend, she no longer wants to date you.

If she's your friend and she wants to date you, she'll date you. If you let that ship sail, it's your fault. You have relegated yourself to being a friend due to your inaction, which, by the way, girls hate.