Thread: What can I do...

This sounds like a joke response but it's not. Er...are you sure he's not gay?

I mean, judging from the picture, you're pretty attractive. If he's cheating on you then he's an idiot and a pussy and a coward. I'd suggest you find out and take appropriate action. Don't be too paranoid or suspicious though because you'll run the risk of sounding insane.

Hickies are almost never there by accident though so be cautious of that one.

The weed could be a factor in the...performance...department. But only if it's a LOT of weed. If he does any other drugs that could also decrease his bedroom abilities. Some guys just can't get it up though for various innocent reasons, it might be a personal or physical problem (they can pretty much arise overnight).

Honestly though, you need to find out more. Try talking things through with him but at the same time try and do some detective work in regards to his commitments to you.

I hope he's not gay :S

I told him just yesterday that I am finding it harder to trust him lately, but I never am like OMG WHERE ARE YOU WHO ARE YOU WITH... so he doesn't think I'm paranoid.

Another problem I guess is that I'm away at school during the week and I am home Thursday [night] through Sunday, and I work, too. So it's hard to keep tabs on him.

So.. is getting a friend he doesn't know to try stuff with him a DON'T?... because I think that's really the only way for me to find out... I mean we have a lot of mutual friends, but I'd say most of them are more loyal to him than me so they wouldn't help...

Originally Posted by srsinternets

I hate to say this, but he's probably cheating on you. He probably can't get it up for you because he's been having sex with other girls. Doesn't mean you're unnattractive (quite the opposite I'd say). He's just, unfortunately for you, found another interest.

Hate to be blunt, but I call it how I see it. =\

Well, I'm glad you said it...
I just wish there was another way for me to find out for sure...

I don't get why he wouldn't just leave me?

Originally Posted by WellAdjusted

So.. is getting a friend he doesn't know to try stuff with him a DON'T?

YES. It is a don't. If you don't trust him, don't act on your mistrust by doing something untrustworthy.