Thread: What can I do...

Originally Posted by gina

Why do you keep saying "I wish he would break up with me" ? If you're honestly not happy and you've having all these doubts about your trust in him, why don't you take the initiative? This guy sounds like a shady character. You'd be a fool to defend someone who said, "uh i dunno how these hickeys got on my neck dur dur lol"

I'd say move on. Five months isn't that long to be dating someone, I'm sure you'll get over it. And look back and be like, "wow wtf was I thinking." We've all been there, mkay.

This.


Also, If he was cheating with another girl, I'd think that he'd be more ready to fuck(this comes from personal experience on both sides of the fence).

I dunno, I've smoked pot since I was 12, and never had a trouble getting it up, unless I was doing certain stimulants, opiates, or MDMA.

Unless he's got ED(one of my friends has had this since he was about 14), there really should be no reason he can't get it up, unless he's gay. (true)Friends of anyone will tell you anything to make them seem better.

As for the hickeys, I've never, once, in my life gotten a bruise on my neck from rough housing(Hickeys are just bruises), the only time I've gotten one w/o someone sucking my neck was from a paintball gun.

This dude sounds like he's gay and cheating IMO. But really I don't know about your situation so my input should be taken with a grain of salt.

lol everyone's calling this guy gay.

Thanks for all of the replies, I appreciate it.

I am going to just ride it out and see what goes on. You are right to say five months isn't long and I know that, but I have a hard time making it past three without dumping boys so I will stay in it because I still like him.

I mean I'm only 19 so I have some time to give to this relationship.. even if it'll end up failing.
Hah, hopefully not because he is gay though...

I'm going to just forget about the bruises. But if there is one more then he is gone.

Again, thank you

Oh, hah... to deal with the sex.. I'll use viagra
But seriously... no idea about that part