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    Default Long time girlfriend betrayed me

    I dont usually post here, but I am completely lost with nowhere to turn...

    Me and my girlfriend started going out 7 years ago. No kids, no rings, Im 21 she's 22 etc. We've broken up before but all in all i'd say the time we've been together is ATLEAST 4 years. But anyway Monday she told me she was staying at her best friend's house to help her watch her kids (she just had her 4th baby). But then I get called the next day from the girl's sister (who's house she was soposebly staying at untill her bestfriend picked her up) and told me that she left with some guy.. I call her best friend and she is pissed off saying she went to greenville(2 hours away) with some guy and she was so pissed because my g/f ditched her and told me that she doesn't want to be friends with her anymore etc etc. She even told them THAT WE HAD BROKEN UP..

    So all last night I was pissed, scared worried. My g/f had slightly MENTIONED spending a little time apart, which I didn't decline, but we talked as if we were just going to work it out. I was even super sweet to her all weekend.We really had no noticable problems in my view.. Well today I got the guy's cell number from her friend. I called and got her on the phone. She was pretty shocked and didn't know what to say, I let her know how I felt.She started half-way crying at one point and said "i told you a needed help" then she flipped the script later and said "i was trying to break up with you the other day" .. I flipped and was like you did not put a good effort in it. Then check this shit out, she was like "nothings going on or anything, I was just trying to make some extra money at the carnival up here"(the guy works there) and that they are at a house with 3 other people and she'll be back in 4 days. Then when I said it was over she acted like that's not what she wanted "can we talk about this blablabla im a stupid bitch blabla" She still sounded upset when I told her i guess she got what she wanted, she replied "i guess so" and i hung up...

    Im saddened, very shocked, and not sure what to do.. I really thought she was the one and all signs pointed to her loving me just as much. She's at my house atleast 4 days a week..
    Maybe something was wrong and im blind, but I dunno... I guess i'll get on with my life...

    I just dont know what to do, I know she's going to try to call me when she gets back to town.. What should I say/do? I guess she's going back to her parents house, I dont know where else she plans to live after this.

    PS. She has cheated on me once a couple of years ago when she was drunk. Thought i'd throw that in there.

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    Well this may not be what you want to hear, but the best move is to let her know that it's over and call it off. I can promise you that the situation probably won't get any better, and you'll just drag this out and hurt yourself more in the end. Just cut clean and start fresh. Also, after you break up with her, do not, under any circumstances, get back together with her.

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    She asked me today if we would still be friends... I told her I didn't think it would work. It's still in the back of my mind though.

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    IMO ex-gfs/ex-bfs never make decent friends. There's just too much baggage, especially after such a long relationship.

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    I agree with crysack. I am only friends with a few of my ex's, but I rarely see them if at all. I only talk to them maybe once every 2 weeks. You just can't be friends under most circumstances.
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    listen to the song so happy by theory of a deadman.
    learn it, love it, live it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sion View Post
    listen to the song so happy by theory of a deadman.
    learn it, love it, live it.
    This is terrible advice.

    And no, do not be friends with her. You can not take her seriously as a person after what she did to you. If you see her on the street then by all means be polite and civil but nothing else.

    She is not worth your time in any way at all.

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    Cut the cord man, end it and get on with life. You dont need the extra thoughts on your mind.





    Or, take her on a vacation to the middle east and cut her head off. Yeah, middle east style .

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