First, some details that may or may not be important.

I'm a gay black guy, my bf is a bisexual chubby white guy. {No point in putting up the "anon" thing, the post I just made in Flames made it very obvious who this is.}

Onto the actual problem...

We have threesomes, because we both like variety in the bedroom and sometimes we're just less than creative in the sack. At first, it seemed really great; I got to enjoy the extra attention and that little joy inside from enjoying a new person, and he enjoyed participating in that as well.

And then, problems arose. The last... 3 threesome partners we had (out of 5, some of them regulars at different points) find me much more attractive than my bf, and it showed visibly. The most recent guy wouldn't even touch him (much, if at all [then again he hardly touched me either, 'cause he claims to be "mostly straight" I guess or whateverthefuckittakeshimtosleepatnightbutanyway]). Last night, this guy whispers something in my ear and then lies about it when my bf asks what he said (pretty stupid). I figure that, maybe, the guy is insecure or isn't sure whether he wants what he asked me for [which is fine, because people do that sometimes]. He even did the "No...wait... well... maybe. Yes. Some other time?" thing.

So last night my bf decides that we should look for another regular.

Do you guys think he's jealous of me for getting more attention from the guys we fool around with, or do you guys think there's some other underlying problem? I'm a little afraid to broach the subject, because he has a tendency to over-analyze things I say [much like the stereotypical woman in this regard] and generally has a short-fuse when it comes to things he thinks I'm supposedly "trying to say without saying".