If you don't get the opportunity to read your letter to the judge, ask your lawyer to call you as a witness and then have you explain your situation in your own words. Sounds like your ex is a psycho bitch. When I was in high school, a good friend of mine had his ex girlfriend tell the counselors at school that he raped her, because he broke up with her. Girls at that age are fucking psycho man. You didn't do anything wrong, but the law is fucked up. Hopefully you get out with a slap on the wrist. I'll be expecting an update in ten days.