Stop bitching and fighting in this thread. Express an opinion, rebut someone else's statement, but no more name calling and aggression.

Quote Originally Posted by SUN View Post
Let her parents do want they want, if it bothers you so much then forget about her.
This is a terrible and useless thing to say.

Quote Originally Posted by Atmosfear View Post
How are you overlooking the fact that they borrow money to buy weed?
My parents borrow money from me, sometimes, as neither of them are particularly well-off and don't have a nice pile of savings to fall back on, whereas I do have a few thousand in the bank. Neither of them failed as parents and if they did it certainly wouldn't be because they need to borrow a few hundred or a thousand dollars once every few months or years. So given that, I can only assume you have a problem with them borrowing money to buy weed? I mean, it's not great, but it's not harmful unless they're not able to pay her back or they're driving her/themselves into the ground. They just seem irresponsible and lazy -- they don't seem like horrible failures.

Look, it just seems like they're being a bit of a drain on her and she needs to get a bit tougher with them. You also need to get a bit tougher with her -- you're not doing anyone favours by lending her money to lend to them. If they have things they need to pay for, they should at least be looking for work. Debt between anyone is regrettable at the best of times, even in the family.