Quote Originally Posted by Pogo View Post
Try to empathise a little, have you ever lived with strangers? The smallest things can become huge problems and raising the issues with your house-mate can do as much damage as good depending entirely on them.
Small issues blowing up + failure to properly communicate is not normal if you have halfway decent social skills.

I realize you're just trying to help and I agree with what you say, but I don't agree with the merit on which you base your help (that these are large issues and the other tenants are responsible--if the thread starter would've handled the problems properly this bottled anger wouldn't have even manifested in the first place).

And just so we're clear, real "major" issues in my opinion consist of things like roommates who have severe drug problems, do illegal things and involve you in them, or somehow ruin the quality of your life significantly.