But I think I've given some decent advice here so I'm asking for some PS myself. Feel free to flame me.

Recently my ex-boyfriend (lol lance bass) posted on my wall (lol facebook) to see how I was doing. So I went to his page to tell him I'm doin' fine. (don't worry, this is not a post about him) I saw that his current girlfriend posted shit alllll over his wall saying things like, "omg ur going 2 b here in 3 hours omg i miss yyyyyyyyooooooooouuuu i looooovvvveee eyooooouuu sososososos much omfg omg wtf" and whatnot. They've been dating for, oh, say, six months and they're already throwing around the L word. (lol tv show)

A question arises. Do guys actually like crap like that? I hear so much bullshit from my guy friends about all the stupid things their girlfriends do, and apparently over-smothering is right there at the top. Honestly, seeing shit like that on facebook, or in life, just makes me sick to my stomach. Why the fuck are people so reliant on relationships these days? Like there's some sort of relationship-comes-first mindset that everyone seems to have tapped into.

Like why the fuck do I see all these kissing pictures on facebook? What's with all the PDA? I get it. You're with someone. Good for you? Not only are people so dependent on relationships, when they DO get with someone, it's gotta be splayed all over the fucking internet.

And then there's people like me, whose first priority is not finding a boyfriend, but bettering myself and starting my own business. And I'M looked upon as the weird one because I'm currently single. People my age are settling down and getting engaged and married and shooting out kids and what not; I just wanna hold up a big red sign that says "SLOW DOWN FUCKERS."

The way I see it, life has cycles of 7 years. The 21-28 bracket is the time where you're really solidifying yourself and finding out what you wanna do with the rest of your life. If you're getting committed to someone else in that time frame, where's the "you-time?"

I don't understand it all. Maybe I'm just having feelings of moral superiority, even though I know it's different strokes for different folks. I really do know that. I know plenty of people in relationships that are awesome and don't find it necessary to flaunt that or think they're better than me. But on the other hand there's tons of people I know that are just the opposite of that

Maybe I'm sick of hearing all the bullshit relationship drama I hear on a regular basis. Maybe I'm just bitter about my generation's view on relationships.

I don't know what kind of advice you can give me, I don't know if you even read all of my ranting and bitching, I don't even know if this post made whole lot of sequential sense but it does feel kinda good to vent every so often you know.

tl;dr version why can't everyone just shut the fuck up every so often