Op again.

So my dad lives in Vancouver and where I was planning on moving was Abbotsford, which is relatively close to Van. I could live with my dad for a bit, then move out on my own in Van, but I never really liked the insanity of Downtown Vancouver which is where he lives. It would be more comfortable and there are plenty of schools I could go to, but I'm not sure my girlfriend would be into it.

We could figure something out where we get a bigger place and live together with my dad for a while, but she's pretty set on Abbotsford - mainly for her parents. She loves Van though, and since her parents would only be living 1hr-1hr1/2 away it wouldn't be too much trouble to visit them or have them visit her. Or maybe I should just move with my dad and let her move with her parents and visit each other, then move in together when we have enough saved in one of the cities.