That sucks man. I thought all recruiters were like the guy you mentioned. I wished I would have had internet when I signed up. I didn't know you could get bonuses for some jobs and just went with what I thought sounded cool for the unit. ARNG isn't a bad gig though. I had fun, and would recommend it to anyone. My friend and I went to a Navy Reserve recruiter but I didn't sign up. I kept thinking if they dropped me 400 miles from civilization I would be okay in some areas but there is no way I could swim 400 miles to shore.

Anyway the etiquette is half your age plus 7 years. If she's not 18 you don't hit it.