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    Default What should I do? Guy problem.

    Ok my "friend" keeps on wanting to hang out together. I put friend in quotations because it seems like he only wants to be friends when I'm single. I've hooked up with him a few times in the past but I'm really not interested in having relations right now.

    He pretty much texts me every other day now with "What's up?" or something. I've been saying I'm busy for the past three weeks and sometimes I just ignore his texts or phone calls completely. School is almost over, so the lame "I have homework" excuse isn't going to cut it anymore.

    I don't want to be a dick to him and say no, I don't want to hang out because we are kinda friends, but at the same time I don't want to hang out because he probably just assumes we're going to have sex. And really, to me it's kinda insulting that he only wants to be friends when I'm single. I really rather stay home and watch tv than hang out with him.

    What should I do? Should I just keep ignoring him until he gets the hint or should I confront him or what?


    I don't want to hang out with someone whom I'm friendly with, but he's pretty persistent in wanting to make plans together. I'd like to stay in good terms with him (ie I don't want a lot of drama). How can I gracefully get him to stop texting me things like "Are you free this weekend?" or "When do you want to hang out?"?
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    Charge him $50
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    simonj can be a real dick sometimes.
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    Okay, but seriously, I don't understand the problem. Hang out with him but don't fuck him?
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    Quote Originally Posted by simonj View Post
    Charge him $50
    lol, funny you should say that... I did charge him once.

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    Okay, but seriously, I don't understand the problem. Hang out with him but don't fuck him?
    ok, I revised my original post.

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    How thorough is his knowledge of your personal life? If he'd have no way of knowing otherwise just say you're trying to get with another guy and can't be hanging out with him. If he's too sensitive for that to not cause drama or he'd know it wasn't true then you could take something that he hates and feign interest in it. When he asks if you want to hang out just say that you're doing that. Other potential things you could do are: pretend to be going through a lesbian and/or asexual phase, pretend to be ultra depressed for a reason of your choosing and want nothing to do with anyone, or just ignore him completely (there can't be drama if you never respond back).

    And, of course, there's always the option of crushing him mercilessly. There will be drama for the time immediately surrounding the crushing, but if you crush him right he'll just go away.
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    i can't tell if we're in the throes of a troll toll (to get into the boy's soul) or if there's just one more big floppy douchebag pussywhipped idiot walkin around out there

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    Well, he's friends with a few people that hate me so I don't really want to add fuel to those fires. I'm too lazy to be passive-aggressive. I think I'm just going to ignore him. It's not like we run in to each other at all.

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    And in all honesty I am sorta going through a lesbian and/or asexual phase and that's one of the reasons why I don't want to hang out with him, but I'm not gonna tell him that because that's really none of his business (plus, I don't want to be gossiped about).

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    have sex with him

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    pretty sure the "let's just stay friends" line has successfully iced 95% of all unwanted male advances just saying
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    scarf wasn't man enough to do it so queendork pushed herself down the stairs.

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    He already "just wants to be friends". To this guy, being friends means occasional sexual favors. And when I was younger and slutty I didn't mind that, but now that I'm older, I do.

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    Quote Originally Posted by KT. View Post
    And in all honesty I am sorta going through a lesbian and/or asexual phase and that's one of the reasons why I don't want to hang out with him, but I'm not gonna tell him that because that's really none of his business (plus, I don't want to be gossiped about).
    That stands to reason. It's too bad that you have people like that around in your social circle. People like that get to high school and then stop developing socially and just stay shallow and petty instead of moving on to the next stage. I know it drives me crazy when I get sucked into situations like that. It's just so tiresome. I can definitely empathize with your predicament.
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    i can't tell if we're in the throes of a troll toll (to get into the boy's soul) or if there's just one more big floppy douchebag pussywhipped idiot walkin around out there

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    he sounds asian
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    atmosfear did you suck gina's dick
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    fuck yes.

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    Status update: Ever since I made this topic the dude hasn't texted me, called me, or sent me facebook messages. My only explanation is that he's secretly a member of this website. I was so looking forward to ignoring his messages though

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    He may have just found someone cheaper.
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    simonj can be a real dick sometimes.
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    Every time he wants to play in your pube thicket, tell him its that time of the month.

    That or give him the pregnancy scare.
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    He came to the states for his birthday and now he's going home in a body bag. That's what you get for sending your child to Utah.
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    i would have whipped out my dick in that situation
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    News flash, guys can't get pregnant from vaginal sex either.
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    But what is their policy on winning the hearts and minds through forcible vaginal entry?

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    Quote Originally Posted by no_brains_no_worries View Post
    Every time he wants to play in your pube thicket, tell him its that time of the month.

    That or give him the pregnancy scare.
    my roommate's girlfriend is on the rag 3 weeks a month :???:
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    scarf wasn't man enough to do it so queendork pushed herself down the stairs.

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    Pregnancy scare will scare all men away. Even the man who thinks it's his rage child
    lik dis if u cry evertim
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    yes
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    Just tell him you already have plans whenever he asks.

    Also, KT. I didn't know you were a girl. No wonder you showed interest in my snake.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Vengeful Scars View Post
    Pregnancy scare will scare all men away. Even the man who thinks it's his rage child
    This is probably the best advice if you're not willing to outright ignore him ( I mean, who can blame you; it's hard to be so harsh with real people)

    You- "I just got out of a weird thing with my ex, and I think I'm pregnant"

    Him- "K LOL BRB GTFOing"

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    kt you make me fucking SICK
    I got my allowance but I spent it all on ice cream

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    thanks faesce.

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    Quote Originally Posted by faesce View Post
    kt you make me fucking SICK

    Hey man, at least she's trying to find the most convenient way let him down easily.

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    Tell him you have aids. Seriously if you fucked him he should know that.

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    hey fucktards, I don't need any more of your "advice". Problem has been solved. Like a month ago.

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    Our advice wasn't ever for you, it was for us.
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    simonj can be a real dick sometimes.
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    I CAN'T LABI-STRETCH SIMONJ

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