Originally Posted by
Cryptic
If you weren't drunk or high, it IS that easy, or at least it's going to have to be if you're ever going to have sex. Over time you'll relax. I couldn't get hard the first 3 or 4 times my ex and I tried to have sex and yeah, it was frustrating and disappointing but we also knew it was pretty normal too and if we just let things take their course and not stress too much about it, it would happen and whatta ya know, it eventually did. We just had to get totally comfortable with each other and the idea of having sex and it took care of itself. The same will happen for you.