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First time having sex
Well a few days ago my childhood friend (now girlfriend) and I just had starting having sex for the very first time. We were both virgins and she was able to orgasm a few times, while I was unable to at all. We both couldn't figure out why and we tried doing it earlier today to see if I could orgasm, but no go there. Is it normal for me to not have a orgasm the first few times of having sex???
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I couldn't for a few months after my first time, then as it became less of a nervous experience and I started to realise it was something to be enjoyed, it happened.
It's just a case of relaxing, once you get past the pressure of the first few times it will come naturally.
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Are you inebriated or otherwise tired when you guys have sex? This has some negative effects on every guy's performance. Also, it's probably nervousness.
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no, it's not normal, however it's not uncommon
my advice: don't worry about it. i know it seems like the end of the world because of how awkward it is, but again, at least you're not blowing your load in the first two seconds!
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Yea I figured it was nervousness, but I didn't really feel nervous, so I thought it might have been something else.
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just keep at it until you blow your load. She'll have multiple orgasms and love you for it.
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you're an idiot twostoopid
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What, girls don't love just getting rammed for hours and hours and hours until I get gratification?
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