The Hymen

Well, I was fingering my girlfriend, and I used to use one finger, then it moved to two. Now it's three.
Today while I was fingering her, it felt like my fingers could go in further, and I noticed some watery/bloody substance on my fingers. And like a little something on my finger, like a little booger, really tiny but it was the same color or the substance. I was mostly just wondering if I broke her hymen or not. She said after I left, she noticed a drop of blood on her floor beside her bed. And some in her under, very little but still some there. I was worried at first that I may have scratched the inside of her vagina, but she said she felt no pain at all. And I just wanted to know what it may have been?

yeah you probably broke her hymen

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Originally Posted by KT_

yeah you probably broke her hymen

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Alright, at first I felt wierd, because I thought that she'd be a little distrought because I didn't break it during sex, but she said it's fine, since i'd be the first guy she'd have sex with.

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Originally Posted by KT_

yeah you probably broke her hymen

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Alright, at first I felt wierd, because I thought that she'd be a little distrought because I didn't break it during sex, but she said it's fine, since i'd be the first guy she'd have sex with.

We've been going out for almost 10 months, and we're both virgins.

Also another question, she says her vagina is hurting her now. Not a bad pain. Not like a cut sort of pain either. She says it's not that bad, but is she going to be alright? Sorry i'm sort of a novice at this (considering I am a virgin). And will she be okay to have sex the next day?

Uh, as far as being able to have the sex the next day you'll need to wait, u'know, until the next day. Every person's body is different. Ask her if she feels okay to have sex.

Oh and remember that for some girls, sex hurts the first time. But not all girls, so don't be scared of hurting her. Just pay attention to what she says and how her body reacts.

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Originally Posted by KT_

Uh, as far as being able to have the sex the next day you'll need to wait, u'know, until the next day. Every person's body is different. Ask her if she feels okay to have sex.

Oh and remember that for some girls, sex hurts the first time. But not all girls, so don't be scared of hurting her. Just pay attention to what she says and how her body reacts.

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I always figured the first time sucks no matter what. Go nuts.

you probably tore her vaginal walls with your gorilla fingers

nice necro coq

I'd gorill-her fingers!

damn, i knew i mist something

You're like the 3rd guy she's had sex with that was a virgin too.

I'm stick shit into her vagina.

But that's not sex.

Yes.

thanks op i just threw up

I wore a condom for the first time in a few years a couple weeks ago.

OP can you guess why this is related to your post?

i miss wearing condoms

why dude

because wearing condoms means i'm having sex duh

Since I became sexually active I've used a condom two times. The first time was the first time I ever had sex (on Memorial Day, how great is that?), and the second time was about two years ago (and it broke).

The moral of the story: fuck condoms.

i have never had sex without a condom except once -- i would have rathered having it on the whole time, but she really wanted it without, so we went without for a while and then i put one on

edit: oh and once with my ex when going six feet to my drawer to get the condoms was something neither of us was willing to do at the time

after a couple scares, my gf insists on wearing condoms, but when it comes down to it, neither of us are willing to get up and grab one, or replace the ones that get used so i mean

i also miss having a girlfriend

too much work

seriously 500 condoms vs one stomach punch come on

Pulling out works just fine and more equitably splits the clean up duties.

shouldn't the woman be on birth control pills?

I NEVER PULL OUT

NEVER

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Originally Posted by KT.

shouldn't the woman be on birth control pills?

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Amen to that sistah.

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Originally Posted by faesce

NEVER

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Just like America

pulling out sucks

Pulling out is a very ineffective birth control method. You might as well come inside her.

plus condoms aren't just for birth control duh

i was born in the 80s, and therefore terrified of STDs

the only reason i wasn't too concerned to go without one with my ex was that i was the first one to venture into that particular territory.

KT i have been pulling out for over a year now with no babies

NEVER PULL OUT

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Originally Posted by coqauvin

KT i have been pulling out for over a year now with no babies

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maybe you're sterile.

-----"im catholic and its a sin for me to use condoms or pull out, so you need to get on birth control or swallow"

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Originally Posted by KT.

maybe you're sterile.

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if i was, would i be pulling out?

Pulling out is a perfectly effective method kt you are an idiot.

Also transmission rates for the worst STDs are negligible for vaginal sex (the only exception being herpes during an outbreak.) I mean, the worst you're going to get is a needle up your dick for chlamydia.

To be objective, pulling out isn't as effective as wearing a condom because pre-ejaculatory secretions do contain some sperm.

Yeah, and I'm just sayin, it only takes one sperm to get knocked up.

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Originally Posted by Mr. E

To be objective, pulling out isn't as effective as wearing a condom because pre-ejaculatory secretions do contain some sperm.

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from wikipedia: pre-ejaculate

Popular belief states that pre-ejaculate may contain sperm that can cause pregnancy, which is a common basis of argument against the use of coitus interruptus (withdrawal) as a contraceptive method. However, some studies have found that withdrawal could be almost as effective as condoms in preventing pregnancy.[10] There have been several studies that conclude no sperm is present, and thus, pre-ejaculate is ineffectual at causing pregnancy.[1][2][3][4] It is likely, however, that pre-ejaculate that follows a recent ejaculation will contain sperm,[11] though urinating will flush the urethra of remaining spermatozoa.

[1]http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/12286905

The more significant finding, however, was that most pre ejaculate samples did not contain any sperm and those that did had only small clumps of a very small amount of sperm which seemed to be immobile. A larger study is needed to verify these results. If these results are confirmed, they may dispel the myth that pre ejaculate fluid contains sperm.

[2] http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/12762415

Does preejaculatory penile secretion originating from Cowper's gland contain sperm?

Zukerman Z, Weiss DB, Orvieto R.

Department of Obstetrics and Gynecology, Rabin Medical Center, Petah Tikva, Israel.
Abstract

PURPOSE: To determine if spermatozoa are present in the preejaculatory penile secretion, originating from Cowper's gland.

METHODS:

DESIGN: Prospective clinical and laboratory study.

SETTING: Andrology and Sex Counseling Unit, Department of Obstetrics and Gynecology, Academic Teaching Hospital.

PATIENTS: Five patients referred for premature ejaculation, three for excessive fluid secreted during foreplay and four normal healthy volunteers.

INTERVENTION: Glass slide smears of preejaculatory Cowper's gland secretion obtained during foreplay from at least two different occasions, and semen samples after masturbation.

MAIN OUTCOME MEASURES: Microscopic examination of air-dried smears, and routine semen analyses.

RESULTS: None of the preejaculatory samples contained sperm. All the patients had sperm in routine sperm analyses.

CONCLUSIONS: Preejaculatory fluid secreted at the tip of the urethra from Cowper's gland during sexual stimulation did not contain sperm and therefore cannot be responsible for pregnancies during coitus interruptus.

from this and my year of pulling out, so long as i don't blow a load, not urinate, then begin banging again i have nothing to worry about

and i've had nothing to worry about.

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Originally Posted by Mr. E

To be objective, pulling out isn't as effective as wearing a condom because pre-ejaculatory secretions do contain some sperm.

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also condoms break so i mean the risk is the pretty close to the same thing on both counts

since i have no stds to worry about...

I got suckered in by common belief.

Drat.

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Originally Posted by coqauvin

since i have no stds to worry about...

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and you can't ever get std's unless you've had them all along.

thus never worry about wearing condoms.

QED

Well sycld since I'm an elitist who doesn't use intravenous drugs I would say my danger is practically 0.

I dont really care about the risks for the other 99%

Also the closest I ever got to banging a poor girl was her car. LEATHER TRIM? MIGHT AS WELL BE CLOTH, BITCH!

i suppose i should clarify that i'm in a monogamous relationship

apparently sycld thinks i live the life of a rockstar vatican assassin

My wife and I used the pullout method for birth control after trying various contraceptives. Works pretty good, we've only got two kids.

yes but you're an idiot, so my point stands

You're in a monogamous relationship. She isn't...

Oh yeah, Atomic is the open marriage guy.

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Originally Posted by coqauvin

i suppose i should clarify that i'm in a monogamous relationship

apparently sycld thinks i live the life of a rockstar vatican assassin

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i thought you were the macdaddy of Nunavut.

i've been disabused.

up the tailpipe chaps

sycld never lets them pull out.

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Originally Posted by KT.

Pulling out is a very ineffective birth control method. You might as well come inside her.

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Not true, it's got about a 73% success rate (in a time period of 1 year) even if it's not done correctly.

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Originally Posted by faesce

too much work

seriously 500 condoms vs one stomach punch come on

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i didn't mean to but i lol'd

also every time, EVERY TIME i find myself in a stream of steady sex i eventually go on birth control and then we break up a week later

this is my curse

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Originally Posted by gina

also every time, EVERY TIME i find myself in a stream of steady sex i eventually go on birth control and then we break up a week later

this is my curse

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suddenly, memories of guitar hero 3 and killswitch engage kick in

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Originally Posted by gina

also every time, EVERY TIME i find myself in a stream of steady sex i eventually go on birth control and then we break up a week later

this is my curse

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Actually it's quite simple science.