I just don't get bitches any more.
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I just don't get bitches any more.
yeah, it somehow sent before i could finish
my ex and i are getting back together, so this other chick im friends with told me that she thinks im trying to be more than a friend, and she doesnt want that right now. Ok, wasn't interested in her anyway. I asked her wtf was with her constantly bailing on our plans and she turned it into a huge fight. I was just just trying to get an apology out of her over new years, and then she told me her friends all do that to her.
That's not an acceptable reason, and i told her i want a real reason.
Ok, she has a troubled past. Not as troubled as mine, but she's of course the victim here.
So finally, sick of the arguement, i said fuck it
she then said fuck you
Now, that's just a horrible way to come to the end of a fight, as i just gave in, and in all honestly who does she think she is? So I said 'go fuck your self' back, 'find a new friend to mooch bud off of'
she said 'i will'
and i ended 'bitch'
What the fuck?
...what are we supposed to help you with here exactly?
What do I do? Just say fuck her and lose one of my very good friends or do i try to stay friends with her?
Ah I see, I got lost in the wording for a second, but it all makes sense now. (Not in the best condition to be giving advice right now, mind you. I'm going to try anyway though.)
Definitely try to stay friends with her, she's definitely trying to tell you something unless that's the way she usually acts. The best option would probably be to talk to her and try to find out what's going on in her head. With any luck she'll be open with you.
One of your problems is that you call them bitches. It doesn't sound like you have much respect for women, which could be your problem.
If you're not interested, why press the issue? She was probably trying to distance herself so that a relationship would not form. You should have simply explained that you were content "just being friends". She is the victim because you essentially pressed the issue too far. I'm not saying that she's not at fault at all...but for the most part, it looks like you were the one that made it escalate.Quote:
so this other chick im friends with told me that she thinks im trying to be more than a friend, and she doesnt want that right now. Ok, wasn't interested in her anyway. I asked her wtf was with her constantly bailing on our plans and she turned it into a huge fight.
Also, you retaliated by saying stuff like "go fuck yourself". If you want to keep friends, don't insult them, treat them well...it's that simple.
Apologize to her and tell her that you were wrong and that you appreciate her as a friend...you don't want to lose her great friendship. Either way she's going to see it as your fault...so, if you don't want to lose her as your friend, take the blame.
Just a place for this man to rant and not keep everything bottled up.Quote:
Originally Posted by djwolford
I'd just wait a few days or so to give her some space and then confront her that you're sorry. Bitches are bitches they have vaginas. Thats why you stay tight with your bros, no drama we don't do that shit.:madclap:Quote:
Originally Posted by Anonymous
djwolf and denounce, your advice helps. pepsi, you're a douchebag.
Well, since you can't take advice like a man, I'm closing your thread.
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