Is there something wrong with me?

This question came to me because I broke up with my girlfriend of about year last night. I really dont have a reason to leave her, shes a great looking girl, cooks very good often, does my laundry cleans and everything.
The only reason I can think of that made me leave her is the fact that we could be together forever, and Im only 20 and I want to go out and do crazy things and experience my younger years as a single guy.

This is the third girl I broke up with in the same manner for the same reason, I considered all 3 girls to be very attractive and all 3 treated me like a king. I feel as though Im unable to build an emotional attachment to anyone because I just dont care.

My not caring goes further than my girlfriends, I feel as though if my parents or any family died I would not care, I feel horrible saying that but it is how I feel?

I feel as though I have a very powerful mind and more control over myself than normal people do, in situations where most people would panic or be frightened I am not. It goes along with me not caring. In a car accident we spun down the highway hitting a bridge and guardrail, I never flinched.

A man once chased me in a car with a gun and shot my car, I was not at all frightened.
I feel like the loss of emotion in those situations are almost beneficial, but I also feel my loss of emotion sucks in other situations such as my girlfriends and family, I dont care about money, I care very little of any of my materialistic possessions, I feel as it doesnt really matter because Im just going to die, and as long as I dont do anybody any harm Ill be accepted to whatever happens when you die.

I have no religious views, but I do believe in an afterlife.

I feel as though Im either insane, or I have very good control over of my emotions? But I also feel like I have no emotions in order to make my life more efficient.

If that makes any sense........

heres a piece of advice friend:

stop analyzing yourself and stop second guessing your actions so much. people come in all shapes and sizes, not just physically, but mentally and emotionally as well. you're you because you're different from everybody else, and there's nothing wrong with that. if you're curious as to why you feel like you have trouble feeling emotions, see a specialist, although to be honest most people (whether or not they'd admit it) would find such a "problem" to be a very good thing because you can focus more on what's important and less on what your emotions dictate

advice that i wish someone had given me a couple years ago:

you are much less interesting than you think.

people have trouble connecting to other people sometimes. relationships are not all the same -- you may not feel connected to anyone in your life, but you will eventually, to the right people. i don't feel particularly attached to my parents either, and i don't feel like i would be crushed if anything happened to them. it's called SELF-ABSORPTION and it's unideal but whatever.

you have no control over your emotions; they just don't behave like most people's do. like maesce said, stop second guessing yourself and just fuckin' chillax. efficiency is pointless if you're efficiently boring. find stuff you like and do that. and if you don't want to be in a relationship, don't get in one. if you do want that, but you also want to do crazy shit, then do both. they're not mutually exclusive.

just stop being so whiny and self-important. have some fucking fun, man.

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Originally Posted by Anonymous

This question came to me because I broke up with my girlfriend of about year last night. I really dont have a reason to leave her, shes a great looking girl, cooks very good often, does my laundry cleans and everything.
The only reason I can think of that made me leave her is the fact that we could be together forever, and Im only 20 and I want to go out and do crazy things and experience my younger years as a single guy.

This is the third girl I broke up with in the same manner for the same reason, I considered all 3 girls to be very attractive and all 3 treated me like a king. I feel as though Im unable to build an emotional attachment to anyone because I just dont care.

My not caring goes further than my girlfriends, I feel as though if my parents or any family died I would not care, I feel horrible saying that but it is how I feel?

I feel as though I have a very powerful mind and more control over myself than normal people do, in situations where most people would panic or be frightened I am not. It goes along with me not caring. In a car accident we spun down the highway hitting a bridge and guardrail, I never flinched.

A man once chased me in a car with a gun and shot my car, I was not at all frightened.
I feel like the loss of emotion in those situations are almost beneficial, but I also feel my loss of emotion sucks in other situations such as my girlfriends and family, I dont care about money, I care very little of any of my materialistic possessions, I feel as it doesnt really matter because Im just going to die, and as long as I dont do anybody any harm Ill be accepted to whatever happens when you die.

I have no religious views, but I do believe in an afterlife.

I feel as though Im either insane, or I have very good control over of my emotions? But I also feel like I have no emotions in order to make my life more efficient.

If that makes any sense........

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srsly... get over yourself

and see a therapist

You're doing fine dude.

Most people get to that stage in their life eventually. You'll grow out of it and start caring about stuff once you discover you have something in it worth caring about.

fake it till you make it etc etc