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Well a few days ago my childhood friend (now girlfriend) and I just had starting having sex for the very first time. We were both virgins and she was able to orgasm a few times, while I was unable to at all. We both couldn't figure out why and we tried doing it earlier today to see if I could orgasm, but no go there. Is it normal for me to not have a orgasm the first few times of having sex???
I couldn't for a few months after my first time, then as it became less of a nervous experience and I started to realise it was something to be enjoyed, it happened.
It's just a case of relaxing, once you get past the pressure of the first few times it will come naturally.
Are you inebriated or otherwise tired when you guys have sex? This has some negative effects on every guy's performance. Also, it's probably nervousness.
no, it's not normal, however it's not uncommon
my advice: don't worry about it. i know it seems like the end of the world because of how awkward it is, but again, at least you're not blowing your load in the first two seconds!
Yea I figured it was nervousness, but I didn't really feel nervous, so I thought it might have been something else.
just keep at it until you blow your load. She'll have multiple orgasms and love you for it.
you're an idiot twostoopid
What, girls don't love just getting rammed for hours and hours and hours until I get gratification?
And hours and hours?
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