So there is this girl at school...

I'm a sophomore in college.
I've taken notice to her, she's really cute. I planned on talking to her the minute I saw her, but as soon as I approached she walked towards a a guy nearby. (Safe to assume he was her boyfriend.)

So today, I dressed up, put on some cologne, put on a nice shirt, and saw her sitting down with her friend. No boyfriend in sight. I walked up to her, and simply told her I thought she was pretty. We talked a tiny bit, i made her laugh, and the friend next to her kept "awing", so I guess that was a good sign. I asked for her number, and she said she already had a boyfriend (Which I most certainly knew.), I told her I wanted to start off as just friends.
I walked away with her number, and a great big smile from both of them.

Here's the problem.

I know she had a boyfriend, she told me she had one.
Well, he called me just 10 minutes ago, yelling and complaining to me, that if I "Don't back the fuck off, he'll fuck me up". Etc, I'll spare you his ranting.
I texted him back, commenting on his small stature in comparison to mine, and how he should honestly let his girlfriend live her life how she sees fit, I mean SHE GAVE ME THE NUMBER, SHE COULDVE SAID NO.
Well eventually, the guy started apologizing, telling me that he's sorry if he pissed me off, and was just being defensive.

Was this a bad move? Me talking trash back to the guy, and making him scared (I'm assuming.)?

I haven't really been in this situation before, I never stole a girl from her boyfriend.. I just felt ballsy to do it.

Any input on the situation would be GREATLY appreciated. My Friends tell me standing up the guy's smack talk was a bad idea.. but I didn't really have much of a choice.. He just started yelling as soon as he called.


Thanks guys! I know i can depend on you!

You probably should back the fuck off. You obviously don't just want to be her friend so why on Earth should he let you steal his girlfriend? Just stop being a dick and find some other pretty girl to date rape.

She told me she wasn't happy with him. we were texting a bit back and forth during class. I probably shouldnt put too much emphasis on saying I "only wanted to be her friend".
I told her I wanted to start off as friends. If that helps anything.

Like.. she gave ME her number, she couldve said no, right?

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Originally Posted by simonj

You probably should back the fuck off. You obviously don't just want to be her friend so why on Earth should he let you steal his girlfriend? Just stop being a dick and find some other pretty girl to date rape.

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This is a serious reply? No wonder no one posts in here.

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Originally Posted by ozzy

This is a serious reply? No wonder no one posts in here.

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Yeah, exactly.. I was hoping for something a bit more constructive.

But I did realize after thinking that being her friend first would be something I would prefer..

I think she's cute.. and i dont want to lose contact with her.

Aside from input I wish to receive from the brighter minds of Casual discourse, what do you think about this?

Probably on Thursday I'm going to text her saying I only want to be friends, and that It shouldn't be her boyfriend's place to keep a leech on the people she wants to talk to.

Any input?

True love always finds a way bro, don't give up and always believe in yourself.

If you tell her that her boyfriend is putting leeches on you she will probably dump him and marry you.

Or, on the otherhand, you could take the good advice and leave her alone because you're not going to win her away from him (setting aside for a moment that it's a douchey thing to do), and she's much better at playing this game than you are (as evidenced by the fact that you're posting here.)

Go find someone else, idiot, you're a sophomore in college. Go join a fraternity and get this idiotic idea hazed out of you. Do something cool instead of trying to text girls with boyfriends

Can admin close this? She called me just 20 minutes ago, we're going to meet up for some coffee.
Thanks everyone.. kind of. lol.

"she" is a dude