Sex problems

I've read some of the other thread with the somewhat related problem but I didn't find any information useful.

I'm having a problem lasting when doing any sexual with my girlfriend, I'll probably only last like 1-2 minutes. I've tried a lot of the common things like masturbating before hand and I've tried special performance condoms but those only work 25% of the time.I've heard people say just practice more and it will get better but, I have been having sex consistently for about 4 months now and it hasn't really gotten better. Is there like a type of pill I can get from the doctor or something like that, that can help?

Yes, there are pills and things, no, I wouldn't resort to them by any means lightly. And do not buy anything online. That should go without saying, but these days...

When you say you've "practised", how do you mean? Do you just mean you've had sex a lot? Because that's not good enough. There's a degree of purposefulness to it. You have to practise doing things differently, you have to practise control and restraint and different techniques. You can't expect to do the same thing over and over and solve a continuous problem.

If you try things that work 25% of the time, it's unlikely you have a medical problem, which is why I advise against pills, at the very least for the time being. When it does work, clock what's working, and when it doesn't, clock what isn't. Do this intelligently, and overcome your problem.

focus less on the time spent and more on the time to pleasure ratio imo

ps: nothing is stopping you from having sex multiple times to span over a longer period if that's what you so desperately desire

There are a number of exercises you can perform that will help.


What you need to do is get her to do something, doesn't matter what.

Get real close, and then stop before you SHAZAAAM. As you fight the urge, tighten your muscles that you use to contol the flow of urine.


Do this a LOT. Yes you will get blue balls, but hey, no pain no gain.