Why don't you just find a girl that can, or will, actually give you what you want? You have some control over this, you know. A girl who won't be with you and knows how you feel about her is "still going to be flirty" with you even though she knows it will hurt you? And you're still hanging around because why? If you stick around and take this shit, to be blunt, you deserve all the heartache and confusion you get.
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