Quote Originally Posted by Cryptic View Post
Have you ever had problems getting hard for masturbation? Do you wake up with morning wood and/or get hard in your sleep? If you can jerk it just fine, and you're getting wood when you're asleep, it's probably not hormonal. Also, you DO have a sex drive and you can get an erection, so it's probably not your hormones.
No problems getting hard for masturbation and it's always up in the morning and libido is there. And to your other question, we are yet to find a completely private time so I guess that adds some evil-voodoo-erection-killer-magic too..

Quote Originally Posted by sycld View Post
Do you think you could communicate to your partner how you feel about this? As you said, it doesn't bother her, but if it bothers you you should either simply live with it the way it is IF you can find sex to be able to be fulfilling for you OR you should explore doing things differently if you think it will help.
Yes I've told her that I can't see why it isn't working and that it bothers me. And she reacts well, but I still stress a lot about it.

Thanks for convincing me it's not the hormones I just gotta get over my performance anxiety then, and he has already been some tips for that too