Yeah I read that into it but the plain text interpretation of it was some of that "If it feels good do it." nonsense. Or perhaps no grey areas or even black just white. And he may have done the right thing. I've done things that seemed "right" at the time but then look back and say "Well I was a real asshole for no reason." Even doing somethings by being the victim of indecision where I went along with something I didn't agree with. Sometimes choosing not to make a decision is the worst decision you can make.

It's good that he has friends he can trust though. Sometimes bouncing ideas off people that won't judge you helps a lot.