I can't confront him. She wants me to tell him, but now I feel bad about being a dick since he never did anything terrible to me. We're going on a work trip for the next three weeks. She's been driving him crazy and not giving it up to him. I'm going to try to convince him to separate or cheat on her and make him feel bad. I got to finish packing up. I'll let you guys know how my affair goes when I get back.