I'm not seeing how you define free will. Yes, personality, past experiences, and current situations provide the options that you find yourself with, but you're the one who decides which choice you'll take. If there are five doors, I have several options. However I have the freedom of will to go with whichever option I determine is fit. Sure, the universe may have put the doors there and given me my options, but in the end I choose, not the universe.

Also pressing the matter just a tad, do you believe that conditioning people in such a manner would be a good thing? Everyone in the world gets conditioned through drastic measures not to act violent, or steal, or rape, etc, etc. Would creating a utopia through force really be a utopia?