Kind of a rant...

So I can't really say I'm surprise, if I was I'd be an idiot. She was fed up with my drinking habits and says she wants us to move into separate places, still be friends, and maybe later on we can work on a relationship again. Can't say I blame her, truth be told and I agreed we should live separately and take a bit of a break.

However, what the hell does that mean exactly. She keeps giving me mixed signals like she wants to keep a semi-relationship going as in not go out and bang other people, but then talks on her facebook to some guy saying that she'll come visit him after Christmas.

Is it just an added 'fuck you'? 'We should still be friends and later on get back together... but in the meantime I'm going to go visit a bunch of guys'?

Reading it myself I sound like a bitter ex-boyfriend, but she made it seem like she genuinely wanted a relationship but just needed a space of her own(since we moved right from our parents into a place together) and for me to get my shit together.

She's still living at my(our?) place for a while and I don't really know how to treat her.

We've been dating for 4 years and I'm 23 now.