Alright. Easter Sunday, I had the house to myself for a few hours so I did what I generally do when I have internet alone time and I jerked it to free internet porn like 4 times(I'm 26, so it isn't like I'm 14 and can do that shit all day er'day.) Next day- A chick who I've been close/best friends with and trying to bang for YEARS was having a bad day. She said she was horny so I threw it out there. "Wanna fuck?" I gave her some money to get fucked up on account of the having a bad day, she came back to my place and I gave her a backrub and shit. Then, my dick basically said "NOPE" to the whole situation and refused to get an erection(see: jerking it 4 times the previous day.) So, I ate her out like a gentleman. She was supposed to come over the next day, didn't. I invited her over multiple times for the rest of the week, had bullshit excuses of varying flimsiness levels every time. Then, for supposedly unrelated reasons, she basically flat out fucking ignored me for a week and a half. The only times she would say anything to me would be when I would accuse her of ignoring me to which she would say she wasn't ignoring me, and then go right back to ignoring me. A few days ago I'd kinda had enough of it so I let her know that she was really starting to piss me off with the whole blatantly ignoring me thing, we talked, and I guess things are cool now, in that she at least isn't totally ignoring me. But, I don't know what to do about the whole still-wanting-to-bang her thing, because I don't know if I've blown my chance or not honestly. I haven't been able to get an answer out of her either way, and honestly now I feel like if I even bring it up again she'll just start avoiding the question and then ignoring me again. And, if that were the case, my instinct would be to just say "fuck this and fuck you" and just sever completely.

Basically, I'm frustrated with this situation and have no idea what the fuck I should do. Any advice?