Thread: Had an affair with best friend's wife.

prelude - we're talking about indians so shut the fuck up about this bullshit affair no one cares about.

issue 1 - feather is better than dot

issue 2 - sycld is faring worse emotionally than 95% of native americans

that's because faesce doesn't do favours.

i don't do favours

awful

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this doesn't even sound like a good porno

GOT'EM

Well, I'm helping her prepare for a divorce and she's making it clear that is the path she is persuing. He doesn't know that I'm in on this. He's trying everything but he just doesn't get it that it is over. To all of you hippocrates out there, here is an article from Dear Peggy on the statistics of affairs. He sent her a $200 edible bouquet and has been working out and improving his health, but it isn't helping. As soon as she left, I left and we had a quickie in automatic car wash parking lot in my car.


http://www.dearpeggy.com/affairs.html

Originally Posted by Dear Peggy Article

3. How Prevalent are Affairs?

Conservative estimates are that 60 percent of men and 40 percent of women will have an extramarital affair. These figures are even more significant when we consider the total number of marriages involved—since it's unlikely that all the men and women having affairs happen to be married to each other. If even half of the women having affairs (or 20 percent) are married to men not included in the 60 percent having affairs, then at least one partner will have an affair in approximately 80 percent of all marriages.

But we need to take a closer look at the statistics on affairs to determine what they can contribute to an understanding of our sexual patterns. While affairs happen in non-marital, "committed" relationships as well as within marriage, most of the statistics deal only with "extramarital" affairs. These statistics began with Kinsey's reports in the 1940's and early 1950's. Kinsey's samples included 5,000 men and showed that by age 40, 50 percent of the men had experienced extramarital sexual intercourse. Kinsey's original samples of 6,000 women showed that by age 40, 26 percent of the women had experienced extramarital sexual intercourse.

Later studies dealing exclusively with men indicate a continuous increase in the number of men having extramarital affairs. The increase for women having affairs has been even more significant. Some of the statistics, both for men and for women, are extremely high and legitimately debated, but many people question any statistics on extramarital affairs, arguing that statistics are unreliable and confusing and that no one knows precisely how prevalent affairs are. While there are slight differences in the estimates based on clinical studies and questionnaires, the bottom line is compelling in showing an extremely high (and rising) incidence of extramarital affairs.

Why it helps to know about the prevalence of affairs:
For the person who knows their spouse has had an affair and is still trying to understand why, acknowledging the prevalence of affairs in our society can help them put it in a more realistic perspective. Understanding just how many others face the same situation (regardless of who they are or who they're married to) can help break the sense of being so alone, isolated, or "singled out" for this experience. It can help overcome the feeling of "why me?"

People who have not yet faced this issue, either in their own lives or with their friends or family, would do well to start with a realistic picture of the frequency of affairs in society as a whole. It's not that the sheer frequency means it will happen to any specific person, but it does say a lot about the kind of support to expect from society for remaining monogamous vs. having affairs. We need to make a commitment to face the reality of affairs and address the issue in a more responsible way, both individually and as a society.

Bottom Line: Most of us expect monogamy to be a normal part of marriage or any committed relationship. The reality is that monogamy is not the norm.

So all of you whiners and complainers, you are probably one of those in the other percentages who didn't have one and was a victim of an affair because you are a sorry loser.

OP HERE HAHAHA DISREGARD THAT, I SUCK COCKS

Oh man I'm watching the 'Telephone' video. It's like a really bad satire of product placement interspersed with babar's sexual fantasies.

(yeah, the actual topic of this thread has run its course - it's dead to me now so I'm hijacking it)

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bananaphone

You seriously should.

Well, we've been caught. Hrm. Definitely puts a wrench in things.

Originally Posted by Anonymous

Well, we've been caught. Hrm. Definitely puts a wrench in things.

no rly?

gina you should vlog about douchebags bragging about fucking their best friend's significant others

I love this woman. I want to be with this woman. I want to marry this woman.

Everyone knows. All our friends. Everyone at work knows all the way up to the big boss. They told me to stop at risk of my career.

I've lost all my friends at work, people at my job won't stop asking me about it, and I'm not suppose to make any contact with her or him at the risk of losing my job. I risk a lot more, but its worth it because I'm madly in love with this woman.

I picked her over my best friend. I picked her over everything.

We're sticking to our guns. We're still going for it. Even though he is still trying to get back with her and threatening her and making her cry and treating her like crap he still thinks he loves her. He's a brute. A crude macho-drunk garbage creature.

I will win and her heart will always be mine.

In the words of Dr. Gregory House, "You're an idiot"

you sound like jay gatsby, but then, everything turned out just peachy for him

more like gay jatsby

pretty much

troll

I thought that was established long ago

I loved living there. I loved it when he left for the night. I loved it when he went on vacation. She and I would take to the bed and throw ourselves into each other diving into the sheets. I love wood floors. That bed would glide across the room with each thrust. That night he opened the door, we moved the bed right in front of the bedroom door. He opened it and looked right at us. The adrenaline pumped even harder. I was ready for a fight. I looked at him, my dick looked at him, and I all I could say was," Sorry dude." He cried and ran away.

Surprisingly, he was very calm about it. He asked me if I could move out tomorrow. I was a nervous but I slept there for the night with a pair of steel scissors by my side. The next day, he took her out on a date and I moved out.

When we went to work, he told everyone. I was the top dog, the number one at my job, but now I was an outcast. All our friends sided with him. But guys are guys and they called me Smasher of the Year as much as I told them not to. I felt horrible. I didn't feel horrible for what I did, what we did to him, I just felt horrible from being away from her. I'm in the military, so adultery is a big deal. They tried to get me to confess, but I fought the law and lied and won. They had nothing on me. But he was able to get a military protective order put on me preventing me from talking to her, him, and staying away from that house for the next 90 days or else face military punitive and legal consequences.

No friends, an outcas at work, and no contact with her. I defied it all. I had friends all over the command. I had friends at home who sympathized with me. My boss helped me out in secret. She helped me believe to stay strong and to follow love. Fuck, she even made me watch the notebook.

My love and I are keeping in touch but in secret. I found ways to get around everything. I found ways for her and me to meet up. Afterall, the military doesn't watch what you do in your personal life unless you keep bringing it to the workplace. He can't stop me.

I believe in love. I love this woman. I am madly in love with this woman. She and I are working on the separation. My ex-best friend is spiraling into depression. I'm trying to remain strong.

I love a strong and independent woman, but it is a double-edged blade and I like what also cuts me. She does things I tell her I don't like, but I deal with it because the same is true in reverse. I feel that if I stay strong and have faith and hope and if I pray to God, our love will stay strong. If we were meant to be together, we will. I can only stay strong and keep fighting. Keep risking it all.

Thank you for all those who support me. Thank you. I'll keep you updated.